kmagdalena09
I recently started to see an ex of mine again. We've both dated other people but even then, we'd get together for coffee and such. We've been doing this dance for about a year now.
We used to have a spark like I've never felt. Now as the one year mark approaches, I feel it simmering down. We went from spending as much time as we could together to him turning me down tonight and saying he'd rather just be alone tonight. Which is fine I guess...but the sex isn't what it used to be, we're not attached at the hip...we're certainly not doing badly and we have a lot or fun together, but being as passionate as I am, I miss the fireworks...and I'm wondering if this has staying power for me. Call me a game player but I feel like we're at a stage where I have to start making myself less available to him in order to stay interesting and desirable. Say "sorry babe, got other plans" for once.
I pulled a 10 of Pents in the outcome position of my spread for this relationship. I've read past posts and this card seems to mean many different things....1) endings of relationships, 2) relationships based on security, 3) marriage and settling down.
So with so many meanings attached to one card, I'm not getting much clarity out of a reading I was hoping would and would love to hear some opinions.
I should also mention that in the near future I pulled the King of Pents, which I think resonates with him focusing very much on business and less so on his relationships (as he's been depressed that he isn't where he wants to be in terms of money).
Thank you all!
We used to have a spark like I've never felt. Now as the one year mark approaches, I feel it simmering down. We went from spending as much time as we could together to him turning me down tonight and saying he'd rather just be alone tonight. Which is fine I guess...but the sex isn't what it used to be, we're not attached at the hip...we're certainly not doing badly and we have a lot or fun together, but being as passionate as I am, I miss the fireworks...and I'm wondering if this has staying power for me. Call me a game player but I feel like we're at a stage where I have to start making myself less available to him in order to stay interesting and desirable. Say "sorry babe, got other plans" for once.
I pulled a 10 of Pents in the outcome position of my spread for this relationship. I've read past posts and this card seems to mean many different things....1) endings of relationships, 2) relationships based on security, 3) marriage and settling down.
So with so many meanings attached to one card, I'm not getting much clarity out of a reading I was hoping would and would love to hear some opinions.
I should also mention that in the near future I pulled the King of Pents, which I think resonates with him focusing very much on business and less so on his relationships (as he's been depressed that he isn't where he wants to be in terms of money).
Thank you all!