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Grizabella said:In my opinion, a high degree of accuracy wouldn't necessarily be something you could gauge right on the spot because the things you'd come up with on the spot could be good guesses, in all likelihood. For instance, saying, "You're having trouble in your relationship." because if a person has been in a relationship for more than a month, there are probably at least minor problems cropping up. Or saying, "You're under stress at work" is a statement that 99% of people who have a job would find to be true. So that wouldn't be a very true barometer of your reading ability. The term "accuracy" would mean statements or predictions that would come true later on, right? A reader wouldn't necessarily be purposely saying such things with the intent to be dishonest by making those guesses. They could be amazing themselves right along with the sitter with their "accuracy". But accuracy for me wouldn't be something like that, it would be things you predict or things about the person's life that go a lot deeper than generalities.
A reader who sees a past abortion or rape or the death of a fiance or something like this could be said to be "accurate". Or who sees that a sitter is planning to murder someone when they haven't said anything to the reader that would touch on the desire to do that could then be said to be "accurate" at the time of the reading (extreme example---probably few people actually see something so drastic, even though it could happen). If they touched on those things without being given any clues, then I think the reading could be said to be "accurate" at the time it was given. Otherwise, you can't really determine on the spot that you're accurate, can you?
I agree with you don't always know right away if you are accurate, and time does tell. Time for the sitter to go away and think about what you've told them and maybe they will let you know, maybe they won't. In that case on the spot accuracy you won't know about. Actually I think we don't often know just how accurate we are!
But I think that just because you pinpoint common issues in a person's life, like work conflict, relationship conflict, etc. doesn't mean you aren't an accurate reader. Common issues yes, but I think that picking up on them is more than just making a good guess. You still have to see and feel that in the cards, and even though those are common issues it doesn't make them any less valid or any less accurate when you pick up on them. Especially if the sitter feels that these are issues that are dominating their life right now and they do want to work with and change these issues. I think these generalities are important because they do mask bigger, deeper issues, and therefore you need to be able to pick up on them if you're going to go there. And I think the thing is that people ask about the generalities, they don't usually ask "What is my role in this mess" or "What can I do to change my behavior?" it's the generalities they ask about and so to get those generalities right, to be accurate about them, opens the door.
So to me an accurate, ideal reading is twofold...One where you, as the reader are able to relate the cards to the sitter and to the question/issue at hand and you know that your instincts are right. And two, the reading truly resonates with the sitter. So when I say my reading was accurate, or this deck is reading accurately! that's what I mean.
Pming you Griz, I have an unrelated something...