NightQueen
I agree here, I would also add obsession towards a lover and having control, this to me would not be a love relationship, pure passionSolitaire* said:Addiction=dysfunction and dysfunction in relationships=co-dependency. That sounds like what you describe there. Losing yourself in the presence of another in the desire to please that other. In co-dependency, a person becomes what they believe they need to be to win or to keep the love of the one they love.