I've found over the years that I have grown into and out of many different cards.
And then there's the cards you identify with, as opposed to the cards you don't, but which fascinate you.
For example, I originally identified with the Queen Swords as an independent, clear-thinking woman, then I shifted to the Hermit, then the Queen Wands. Now I'm pretty much Queen Pentacles, or possibly female-knight Pentacles.
for the second group, I have a number of different decks, and I find in different decks I like different cards more or less than in other decks. For instance, my most recent acquisition, the Cary-Yale Visconti, has a card called in the LWB "Faith", and the LWB equates it with The Pope. These cards were never labelled or named, and to me because hte central figure is a woman wearing a papal headdress and other regalia of the office, I call her "The Papess". She is, apparently, a portrait of MAnfreda Visconti, ancestor of the Family that commissioned the deck, who was elected the world's first female Pope by a heretical sect, only to be burnt at the stake by the incumbent. I have spent *much* more time with that particular card than with any other High Priestess or Papess card in my life before, and not because I am identifying with her and consider myself her, but because I am thinking of Manfreda Visconti and thinking about her life and death. Yet at the very same time in other decks I'm fond of, the same card is not fascinating me.
I suppose I am saying there are some cards you will relate to because at that sage of your life you will be living out that archetype, and you'll feel less strongly about it and more strongly about another card as you change and grow. then there are also the cards you might find viually or artistically interesting, or historically interesting, or cards that remind you of your best childhood friend or something, which you bond with for a while, then move on from.
Perhaps your current relationship with the Fool *is* because you're at the start of this important relationship with Tarot, or perhaps it is about your openness to expose yourself to new things, the innocence and enthusiasm of those who take a step on a path without knowing or fearing where it might take them.
Good luck.
