CosmicTarot
That is a very nice analysis cosmictarot!and welcome
I'm glad you liked it, rtemouri! Thank you so much for welcoming me!
That is a very nice analysis cosmictarot!and welcome
This will be my first post on the forum so: Hi there, everyone!
I thought it was interesting to see this thread since I just got Tower in the outcome position in a love reading and I’m VERY single.
Tower has such negative connotations and I wish I could have gotten a clarifier to discern what sort of upheaval the card speaks of in terms of my love life. I saw someone mention Love At First Sight and I would definitely agree if it was paired with Lovers or Ace of Cups, but on its own it can be anything really that causes a minor or huge earthquake in your life.
Personally, I wouldn’t read it as a loneliness or isolation card, as mahafrins suggests (but we all have different interpretations and experiences with the cards). I wouldn’t be so certain that it always speaks about a negative event either, even though, as Grizabella says, it shows people wearing crowns being thrown out of their ivory tower. To me, this very fact, just symbolizes that the status quo is being challenged; a paradigm shift. If the current situation is dissatisfying it could very well be a positive event.
Hence, I would probably read it as a sudden event or a major transformation. It could be good or bad, but without a clarifier it’s nearly impossible to determine the effect. Yet, if you follow the theory of a paradigm shift it would depend upon the querent's present situation. If you're unsatisfied being single, it could possibly speak about a person coming into your life and challenging the status quo of "singlehood".
I really don't think that the tower indicates a life of celibacy for you!!!I quite agree with this. All through my Tower experience my life was being demolished & rebuilt to the point where I'm now surrounded by solid, good people with excellent heads on their shoulders & excellent hearts. All those not on my level have dropped off. At the same time I'm very comfortable with solitude. Doing a love reading is my way of acknowledging my innate social nature that every human has. Am I unsatisfied being single? Why yes, that's why I did the reading. But if the Tower braces me for a life of celibacy, then so be it.
I quite agree with this. All through my Tower experience my life was being demolished & rebuilt to the point where I'm now surrounded by solid, good people with excellent heads on their shoulders & excellent hearts. All those not on my level have dropped off. At the same time I'm very comfortable with solitude. Doing a love reading is my way of acknowledging my innate social nature that every human has. Am I unsatisfied being single? Why yes, that's why I did the reading. But if the Tower braces me for a life of celibacy, then so be it.
I really don't think that the tower indicates a life of celibacy for you!!!
CosmicTarot, I got what you meant the first time round.
I happen to have quite uncompromising standards that I don't expect to have met. So if it takes a shakeup of my standards to get with some guy, forget it
I did a search on here and found that quite a number of single people have gotten the Tower in their love readings, whether negative or positive in context.
So I decided to start this thread hoping that people can share their Tower experiences from Tower-readings done when single.
For me, the Tower actually popped up twice in love readings I did for myself, spaced a year or so apart. The first Tower was in the "How it will begin" position. The second one in the "future energies that will bind or separate" position. Nothing's happened yet, so I'm waiting to see what that means for me.
People who have gotten the Tower love card while single - what did that card turn out to mean for you?
Oh, sorry about that! I read it again and now I get it!
That last sentence of yours really sparked my interest, would you care to explain if it's not too private?
Yet, it could be that this Tower disregards your "forget it" and throws someone, who's the opposite of your standards, in your way, whom you'll find yourself head over heels in love with - or the celibacy thing, of course Who knows! My Tower moment hasn't come yet this time around. Though, I feel like my whole life has been a big Tower moment, so, I'm not sure if I'm ready for more earthquakes coming onto my path. I could really use some stability and a clear route right now. But you know ... Life! *sigh*
I read that you edited out some clarifiers, what were they, if I may ask? (am I being too nosy right now, it's fine to tell me off). I just wondered if you got some clarity what this Tower might speak about in regards to your situation. I didn't receive a single clarifier myself, so I'm feeling a bit disconcerted.
Hi, yannie.
While I'm still very new to reading tarot, I can share what the Tower card has meant for me in a love reading while single.
In general, it's meant some event or situation that was an unexpected jolt to the system - so far, not in a way I'd deem "negative" or scary. In my questions regarding a romantic interest, it's been an inexplicably strong connection between us that was very hard to ignore. It's also meant very intense feelings for someone, that I wasn't expecting and was definitely surprised by. Also very hard to ignore, as much as I tried.
Hope that helps!
lol how does that sentence of mine interest you? Well as previously mentioned, I have just come up for air from a Tower period. Make that Tower+Death+Judgement all at once The only man fit for me is one who has survived comparable $hit to mine & respects my experiences; I want a man I can respect, & only my equal deserves it. I don't expect any man to fit that bill.
I actually forgot what clarifiers I drew. My brain space is saved for more important things right now! Maybe the tower is telling me to forget this question mark of a guy, I've got more important $hit to do