My main take on Judgement is that the process is already happening, no matter what you do or don't do, whether you want it or not. It's like something outside of ourselfs has momentarily taken control and what can you do??? It's up to us, the individual to go with the flow and not resist because resistance is futile.
To me, Judgement in a relationship reading would be feeling like you are alive, as if everything before that moment has merely been existing without really feeling it or living it, but now... you are transported by your feelings and rising up to Cloud 9.
It's wanting to shout from the roof tops and announce to the World... I love this person!
It's the realization of something undeniable.