The first post mentioned Temperance, and this one does, too.
Temperance from the Granny Jones deck. She's right up close to the observer, smiling fondly, pouring a cup of tea, inviting you to sit down and talk to her. Temperance-as-meeting-in-the-middle in the invitation to a heart-to-heart, and Temperance-as-in-abstinence in the cup of tea being offered. And it's such a warm, loving, motherly card - when I feel in need of someone who understands everything but still loves me unconditionally, I always have this card to go to.
Which reminds me ... <scurrying off to start a
new thread>
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A wise woman is someone who chooses as a life-mate someone who is allergic to chocolate so that she gets his share too.