MDredhead
Long story short, we had a failed adoption which took a year and a half and cost tens of thousands of dollars we will never see again. The agency we were using defrauded us and many other families and is under a federal investigation currently.
The day we found out it was not going forward we also found out I was pregnant. Miracle, right? As I am over 35 with a history of ectopic pregnancy (and one fallopian tube as a result) this seemed like a blessing. But on Friday I had a sonogram and the embryo is not measuring as it should be. The doc was sort of nonchalant (not my usual doctor) saying "you will likely miscarry" and ordered blood tests. So now we face a torturous weekend of waiting to see what my hormone levels are and what is happening because the tests don't come back until Monday.
I really don't know what to think. I have been living in a stew of anxiety for what seems like forever now. I have totally lost touch with my intuition about if this is really going to happen-- I kinda feel like it won't, just another blow in a long series of crap. I feel like a failure. My partner's family is pressuring us to have a child and he told the news wayyy too early so now there is that humiliation to deal with. I don't have much hope. I did have a dream that I was pregnant three nights in a row before I took the test, and another dream it was a boy. But I have not had any dreams about it since.
So I drew three cards, asking "what will happen with this pregnancy?" RWS. Reading reversals. Past, present, future
Death rev-- stagnation, resisting change, not being ready for major life changes. This confuses me. I was totally ready for the adoption though this pregnancy took me by surprise I welcomed it and started taking vitamins, altering diet, no drinking, immediately. This might indicate that I will miscarry as the change could be blocked or delayed and therefore Death is riding backwards.
9Srev-- too much worry. Stress. Anxiety. Overthinking. Yes. I got that. I have had this card a lot lately, upright or reversed as I have been through a lot of nightmare situations. This does indicate sort of mental torture and I am probably putting myself through that.
High Priestess rev-- not listening to intuition or being cut off. Not being able to hear the deep intuitive message. Need for quiet and "nothingness" to reconnect. Yeah, I can't hear the message. Actually I think I DO hear the message, which is yes, I am going to miscarry, and its a message I don't want to hear. But perhaps that will help me to prepare myself.
Any thoughts are appreciated. This is a very painful time.
The day we found out it was not going forward we also found out I was pregnant. Miracle, right? As I am over 35 with a history of ectopic pregnancy (and one fallopian tube as a result) this seemed like a blessing. But on Friday I had a sonogram and the embryo is not measuring as it should be. The doc was sort of nonchalant (not my usual doctor) saying "you will likely miscarry" and ordered blood tests. So now we face a torturous weekend of waiting to see what my hormone levels are and what is happening because the tests don't come back until Monday.
I really don't know what to think. I have been living in a stew of anxiety for what seems like forever now. I have totally lost touch with my intuition about if this is really going to happen-- I kinda feel like it won't, just another blow in a long series of crap. I feel like a failure. My partner's family is pressuring us to have a child and he told the news wayyy too early so now there is that humiliation to deal with. I don't have much hope. I did have a dream that I was pregnant three nights in a row before I took the test, and another dream it was a boy. But I have not had any dreams about it since.
So I drew three cards, asking "what will happen with this pregnancy?" RWS. Reading reversals. Past, present, future
Death rev-- stagnation, resisting change, not being ready for major life changes. This confuses me. I was totally ready for the adoption though this pregnancy took me by surprise I welcomed it and started taking vitamins, altering diet, no drinking, immediately. This might indicate that I will miscarry as the change could be blocked or delayed and therefore Death is riding backwards.
9Srev-- too much worry. Stress. Anxiety. Overthinking. Yes. I got that. I have had this card a lot lately, upright or reversed as I have been through a lot of nightmare situations. This does indicate sort of mental torture and I am probably putting myself through that.
High Priestess rev-- not listening to intuition or being cut off. Not being able to hear the deep intuitive message. Need for quiet and "nothingness" to reconnect. Yeah, I can't hear the message. Actually I think I DO hear the message, which is yes, I am going to miscarry, and its a message I don't want to hear. But perhaps that will help me to prepare myself.
Any thoughts are appreciated. This is a very painful time.