MareSaturni
So, i have this great friend of mine who decided to get married. She's 21. And since she was proposed to, she doesn't go anywhere without her to-be hubby (i'd be surprised if she would go to the toilet alone). We never met again to talk about 'women-stuff' because he's always with her.
The problem is, she wants me to read tarot for her...with him sitting by her. I wouldn't have any problem, but he doesn't believe in Tarot (and his family is very catholic - his parents believe it's a thing from the devil) and he looks like he isn't taking it seriously, or looks bored or whatever.
I CAN'T WORK THIS WAY. I've read before with more than one person around me, but then only the sitter was paying attention - the rest were minding their own bloody business. But he...he pays attention to every word (probably to remind her in case i'm wrong), and although i like him (he's a nice guy), he bothers me. I can't really concentrate, and it's difficult to me to read the cards. I can't read with someone looking at me as if i were saying the most stupid thing they ever heard.
I don't know what should i do. I can't ask her to leave her most beloved on the other side of the door. She'd be offended, she would think i don't like him etc etc. (and i'm going to be her bridesmaid!) But i find that i can't read very well with him scrutinizing me. I've been trying to avoid reading for her because of that
Should i just ignore him or something like that?
Have you ever faced something - or someone - similar?
Any ideas are welcome...
~YUKO
The problem is, she wants me to read tarot for her...with him sitting by her. I wouldn't have any problem, but he doesn't believe in Tarot (and his family is very catholic - his parents believe it's a thing from the devil) and he looks like he isn't taking it seriously, or looks bored or whatever.
I CAN'T WORK THIS WAY. I've read before with more than one person around me, but then only the sitter was paying attention - the rest were minding their own bloody business. But he...he pays attention to every word (probably to remind her in case i'm wrong), and although i like him (he's a nice guy), he bothers me. I can't really concentrate, and it's difficult to me to read the cards. I can't read with someone looking at me as if i were saying the most stupid thing they ever heard.
I don't know what should i do. I can't ask her to leave her most beloved on the other side of the door. She'd be offended, she would think i don't like him etc etc. (and i'm going to be her bridesmaid!) But i find that i can't read very well with him scrutinizing me. I've been trying to avoid reading for her because of that
Should i just ignore him or something like that?
Have you ever faced something - or someone - similar?
Any ideas are welcome...
~YUKO