Free Spirit said:
I'm sorry I know I sound a bit green,
but what is the proccess for asking a card that best represents your self.
This will probably sound cliche but it really depends on what
you feel most comfortable with. When it gets to Tarot its been my experience that there is absolutely no "good" way to do things. Due to its rather surreal nature this isn't about following specific rules and guides which will absolutely direct you to the answers or solution you seek.
Instead this is about doing things in such a way where you feel comfortable with it. After all; it will be yourself doing the reading. So my suggestion here would be to experiment.
Now, I don't feel too comfortable with suggestions since I definitely don't want you to reflect on these as an absolute solution. So please keep that in mind
But here's what I'd do:
First spread the cards out and simply close your eyes and go over the cards with your finger until you feel/know/think this to be
the card. And naturally see if this really worked out for you.
And when that approach works for you you could easily experiment some more. What I also like doing myself is grabbing a deck, shuffling it, create a stack which I then cut into 3, pick up randomly and just pick up the top card. It really is about what you feel best with..
Good luck!