violetdaisy
An end has to happen for a beginning
10s - what's done is done but because what's done is done a silver lining can be seen. There is no more pain there. No more arguments, no more of the crying that becomes the sinus headache that lingers for hours because of the crying. When you recognize something is broken you are better able to see if it can or should be healed. There's nothing to keep you from finding what you actually seek anymore (what is it that you truly seek?)
Death - The end of something. Something really is gone, and there's sorrow in that for you. And it hurts. (And that sucks. I've been there.) We learn there are 5 stages of grief. Someone doesn't have to literally die for you to experience all of the stages of grief. And they don't have to be experienced in order or only once each. (And that also sucks.) But once you're firmly in the "acceptance" level of the ending there is room for beginning.
So, yes, it looks like it really is the end this time. Let yourself experience that part of this relationship. Don't bury it. Embrace it; and then let.it.go.
10s - what's done is done but because what's done is done a silver lining can be seen. There is no more pain there. No more arguments, no more of the crying that becomes the sinus headache that lingers for hours because of the crying. When you recognize something is broken you are better able to see if it can or should be healed. There's nothing to keep you from finding what you actually seek anymore (what is it that you truly seek?)
Death - The end of something. Something really is gone, and there's sorrow in that for you. And it hurts. (And that sucks. I've been there.) We learn there are 5 stages of grief. Someone doesn't have to literally die for you to experience all of the stages of grief. And they don't have to be experienced in order or only once each. (And that also sucks.) But once you're firmly in the "acceptance" level of the ending there is room for beginning.
So, yes, it looks like it really is the end this time. Let yourself experience that part of this relationship. Don't bury it. Embrace it; and then let.it.go.
