Lately I've been practicing a Yes/No spread. I think it's by Llewellyn. You draw 5 cards, Major Arcana and even minors are a "Yes", Courts and odd minors are a "No", and the number of each gives you an answer by degrees, ie 5 no's is a resounding NO and 3 no's is a kind of no.
I've been asking some control questions, questions I know the answer to, and it's been coming out completely wrong a lot of the time. My question is, am I doing something wrong or are these Yes/No spreads just not very dependable. What are your thoughts?
My thoughts are that Tarot wants to chat around things, not give yes/no answers. My thoughts are also that a "yes" answer is not always positive (take for example the questions "is that suspicious lump cancer" and "is my partner unfaithful"), and a no-answer is not always negative ("am I going to have an accident if I drive tomorrow" or "will I fight with my mother if I see her"). So picking positive cards for yes and negative cards for no just won't work.
I always have a couple of decks around my person, but I also always have a pendulum on me. Pendulums, so long as you *check* what swing they have for yes and no on a given day - it can change with the weather or other factors - are perfectly designed for yes/no answers, and work well around your decks.
If it really *must* be Tarot, try this.
1) find your Ace Pentacles/Coins card.
2) ask your yes/no question.
3) Holding the card high above your reading table, drop it putting a little spin on it, so that it will drop onto your table.
4) If it lands face-up, it's yes, whether to a positive or a negative question. If it lands face-down it's no, whether to a positive or a negative question.
But as I said, pendulums are better. Tarot was designed to discuss things in-depth, not to give one-word answers. Pendulums were designed to give one-word answers. Using the right tool for the purpose makes any tradesman's job a whole lot easier.