Thirteen
True. But if they think that the other person is part of whatever they have, then they'll hold onto them as well.balenciaga said:I always see the 4 pents, though, as someone who is protecting their own boundaries, not those of others. They are drawing a circle around themselves. Keeping private. Holding on to whatever they have for themselves.
But I didn't mean for my mention of 4/Pents to threadjack. I only mentioned it because it's one of those cards that *could* given question, querent, spread, position, indicate to me a manipulative relationship. This as compared to the Hermit, who I really don't think is interested in manipulating anyone, spiritually or otherwise. If anything the Hermit might manipulate someone in order to escape a relationship and remain on their own, but to make them think/believe like them? I can't see the Hermit getting anything out of that.
If you're Svengali, you're stuck with Trilby always asking you to help her sing. If Svengali was the Hermit, he's likely say to Trilby, "Figure out how to sing on your own. I've got better things to do with my time then hypnotize you."