Reading for katieb
Hi there!
My question is where are things headed between E and myself? I am in another relationship with my children's father (S) but not sure this relationship is for the long run . Ever since I met E, I've know there was something between us. Is it friendship, sexual or will a romantic relationship develop?
Hope this is a clear question, if not pls don't hesitate to ask
This chart was my second attempt. The first had Saturn in the first house and the Moon void of course. This chart has a late degree of Virgo rising but not late enough to bring into question its validity.
So you are signifed by Mercury in the chart and E is signified by Jupiter. Mercury is in its own Terms in Leo which helps to shield it from the Sun, which is only 4 degrees away, making Mercury combust. This is usually taken as a debility, as it is associated with not being able to see or be seen. In this case the Sun is also in the Terms of Mercury and of course Mercury is in the sign of the Sun. So there is a weak mutual reception here. I think that means that you probably can see but not see clearly what's going on.
However the placement of Mercury in the twelfth, conjunct Lord 12 (The Sun) is not good. The twelfth is associated with what is hidden or lost (or loss in general). It is not a good house to be in because being averse to the Ascendant, it suggests that action is difficult or indeed will not be undertaken to get what you want.
Jupiter is in early Leo, so there is some connection between Mercury and Jupiter but it is one that is getting weaker, not stronger, as Mercury is the faster planet and is already nearly 20 degrees ahead of Jupiter.
Mercury is not in any dignity of Jupiter and Jupiter is not in any dignity of Mercury, so I don't see this chart suggesting a strengthening attraction between you, rather the reverse. You look like you will drift apart and you will be the main motive power in that.
You mention S, the father of your children. I've tried to identify him in the chart and I can see two possibilities. I could take Saturn, the ruler of the fifth house of children. Saturn is a natural significator of the father, (like the Sun) The other possibility is to take the fourth house from the fifth house of children, which gives me the eighth house ruled by Mars. The reason for that calculation is that the fourth house is the house of the father, so the father of your children (fifth house) would lie four houses further on, counting the fifth as the first of those (equivalent to using the fifth as the children's Ascendant or first house).
Both Saturn and Mars lie in Scorpio. Both have been squared by Mercury, suggesting tension or problems of some kind. However Mercury is separating from that square, so the tension will reduce.
If I look at the Moon, which is a natural co-significator of you, as the querent, there seems some hope of things getting better between you and him. The Moon is applying to a trine with Saturn from Pisces. So if I used my first choice of his significator then things will get better between you. Unfortunately the same conclusion can't be reached about reconciliation as the trine between Moon and Mars is separating. So whilst my first instinct is to say that relationship will continue, the chart is somewhat ambivalent on that point.
One final point. The Moon in Pisces is in the Sign of Jupiter and the Decan of Jupiter, so being your co-significator it does show your attraction to E. Sadly the Moon is making no aspect to Jupiter and Jupiter itself is not in any dignity of the Moon. So again this suggests that there will be no romance. Indeed it suggests that the attraction, such as it is, is all on your part and not on his.
So I don't think you're seeing the situation clearly here. Any attraction is almost certainly all on your part and I don't think it will last. You are likely to take the initiative in any split.
Should you stay with S? On that one the chart is divided. My normal reaction is to keep things simple so Saturn seems to suggest the father of your children. There is chance that things will return to what they were but no guarantees.
PS. I started by saying that it's a late degree of Virgo rising. One possible interpretation is that things are now set in terms of outcome and there's not a lot you can do to change them.