Aerin said:
I was just looking to see if many people used a significator in the sense of removing a card from the deck/ having the querent do this. I've never really understood why it is a good idea.
Anyway, I came up with this thread which is quite old now.
Is there anyone who does use one???? And if so, how? While I might have a relevant spread position or spot a card as perhaps representing the querent, I don't use one.
I see it mentioned in (some, not all) LWBs. I see people ask about it here, and others chorus that either they don't use it, or that they associate a card with themselves, but it stays in the deck.
I think it's a waste of a card, myself. If I am going to put an extra position in a spread for a "significator", ie, a card to indicate the client (or me), I will want that card to be random so that it can tell me something about the inner state of the person with regards to the issue dominating the rest of the spread.
And when LWBs tell you how to select a significator, they are so superficial! they might tell you one card for an older blond man, an older dark man, a younger blond man, a younger dark man, an older blonde woman, an older dark woman, a younger blonde woman and a younger dark woman.
How on EARTH is someone's hair-colour (so often chosen, not genetic), skin-tone and age at all relevant to what's going on in their heart? I know people who look very similar to each other, who have entirely different personalities and drives, and do not resemble each other at all, but following some of those LWB's instructions, you'd have to choose the same significator for them. So to me, it's meaningless.
I just don't do meaningless cards or positions. What a waste of time.