If you're having trouble connecting intuitively to the cards, then I would say you might have the wrong deck! When I got my first deck, the Fantastical Creatures Tarot by Lisa Hunt, I tried for months to learn card meanings, but absolutely sucked at it. I
had to have the LWB if I wanted to get anything out a reading. I didn't even know enough to use my intuition; in fact, I didn't even really know what 'using your intuition' entailed! Those were dark times.
I was feeling super put out, but I looked around for a while and made the decision to get a new deck, the Wild Unknown. Don't get me wrong; Fantastical Creatures was my first love. I adore that deck and it's a lot easier to use now, but some decks just read better for certain people, and the Wild Unknown was the deck for me. The symbolism just clicked perfectly in my brain; within literally two days, I could shoot out a few key words for 90% of the deck. Finally, I could do readings without relying on a LWB!
Now, my point in this rambling isn't that you need to go buy the Wild Unknown. (Quite the contrary, really; the imagery could be considered a bit to sparse for some people.) What I'm getting at is that
deck choice matters. The first deck you fell in love with might not be the best learning deck for you! Just because something is pretty or interesting doesn't mean the symbolism will click for you, and tarot is all about symbolism. Even 'classics' like the RWS don't work for some people (me included!). Ultimately, all you have during a reading is (ideally) the cards, so you have to click with the symbolism. Personally, that's what I think people learning tarot need to focus on: the symbolism. If you have a good deck, then the art is there for a reason, not just to look pretty. For example, in the Wild Unknown, the Temperance card is a heron with an outstretched wing and several drops of water falling on a large flame. I see Temperance in the WU as all about balance, represented by the fire and water balancing each other out, and healing, symbolized by the water soothing the burn of the fire.
If you have little tricks like this for all the cards, you'll be able to do a basic reading pretty easily! As you keep reading, you'll start getting little inklings like, "Hmm, these two cards might work like this..." And that's how your intuition grows! This doesn't mean you can't use the book anymore; I still use LWBs and bigger books a lot just to help my studying and expand my intuition.
This is all just my experience though! Everyone learns differently and has different reasons for learning and different goals they'd like to meet regarding their tarot journey. I hope this longwinded reply helps a bit!