I am taking 2 course on Tarot. I am feeling out of my depth as, I decided to confuse myself very badly. I switched from their views to looking online at other's views and this is where i became lost. Each site each person has their own way with the cards. My problem is where to find the best book as a basis to know the meanings of the cards.
I am struggling. I am studying one course and the plan is then to study the next course.
I don't know how best to rectify the situation. Advice needed please thank you.
That sense of confusion may be part of your leanring process,. I know it was in mine. I can't say I ever took a course in Tarot. But I did read tons of books on meanings and methods (something I would still recommend doing) and yes I also read the meanings of teh real readers here at AT.
I was feeling just what you were at the time. Like WHY can't two books agree on what each card means??? Sometimes two books even had opposite or completely unrelated meanings.
Meaning is changed my so many things: the qusstion, the spread, the position in the spread, other surrounding cards....etc Add to that that each deck is quite different adn the same card in different decks can have quite a diffrent meaming. And that al lot of readere (myself included) take most (most but not all) of the meaning from he card image, not set meanings.
It really is quite difficult to pin a card taht can have almost infinite meaning down to 2 or 3 words. SO all books can never agree on and exact meaning
Whne it comes to individual readers....the cards speak to each of us in a differetn way, that relates best to our unque personality adn way fo viewing teh world. So yes different cards will mean different things to different readerssss.
the thing as a reader is not so much to find what works for one perosn you trust anhd copy them. The thing is to find what works best for you. The indiviual who is you. Differing things and meanings will work for different people.
I think readlings alot fo bookd to see different meanings is good. And necessary. But to see them just as suggesttion, not each one as law. Then you get to decide which of all the meanings of a card feels best to you adn best represents who you are inside and the kind of reader YOU want to be. That too differs from person to person.
For me, I staerted here:
http://www.learntarot.com/
The page is free, but there is a book version of it you could buy too if you want.
Also, you CAN just feel free to invent methids and meanings to things if you need too. If you ever find youreslf thinking that "I wish I had a way to get my cards to do this or that or say this or that...." Invent one. You are always free to do so at any time, For me the whole thing is about experimentation. About trying the new things and meanings out that appeal to you or call to you. Then you keep what works and reject what doesn't (or alter it) adn then over time you will have develiped your system that is yours alone and is the absolute best for the individual who is you.
Babs
What I learnt from that in the end is that the meaning of each card is fluid. It can be changed my so many different things. You could write lik 20 pp in if you treid to list even all the possbiel meanings you oould think of for any one card.