The Queen of Wands isn't overly cautious. The Queen of Pents/Queen of Cups is. At least, that is my take on it. Queen of Wands is fire. Fire is active. Fire and Water create steam.
When you look at the Queen of Wands what are the first words that pop into your mind?
I have recently had the Queen of Wands crop up several ties in the present or future part of a love related reading for myself. I always have trouble with the court cards and I am struggling to know if she is representing me or I'd it's advice as to how to behave or something completely different.
She may well be about self-esteem: she may be indicating that if you don't like yourself very much and don't enjoy your own company, you're not going to be in a position to attract the right kind of future partner.
