Tara
Hi
Here is a Stalemate Spread I did for my own issue with a woman I work closely with. Three days a week, we are the only two in our area in charge of vulnerable adults. Although we both earn the same and neither have a contract, she has the most experience and is senior to me. She does not communicate to me regarding work and I often hear the news through clients instead. This I need to sort assertively and I need your advice, as i am afraid I will make it worse if I do not say the right thing to her. I used the World Spirit Tarot and got
1. The overall conflict/situation – Knight of Wands (Seeker) – We are both driven to succeed or at least we are both hard workers who bring a lot to the table and use our initiative. I want to progress and I now have the qualification to have her job if it were available. She is more easy-going than I am and has the upper hand and is keeping me down I feel, by not keeping me informed. I am in the rebellious mood now and sick of it and her. I want to deal with it assertively sooner rather than later as it is obvious we don’t like each other. I don’t know if she is being thoughtless or simply bullying me as she also ignores me sometimes when I ask her a question but I can’t prove she heard me, so…
2. How they really feel about you – Five of Wands – She feels like I am competitive or maybe she feels that we are both competing with each other and there is jealousy involved and power struggle perhaps. She is well aware there is conflict between us, (close to the surface on my side, but she has no idea probably how much it upsets me, or does she).
3. How you really feel about them – The Hanged Man – I think she has ulterior motives for keeping me down and is deliberately not communicating with me, not just on a professional level but also a personal one.
4. Common Grounds (what the 2 of you have in common and can use to help the situation) – Eight of Cups – We are both unhappy in that area and want to move on and forward. She gets the same pay as I do for leading in our little space and we are both relief workers without a contract. Neither is fulfilled in that sense.
5. Outcome – Seven of Cups – We could both have choices when I speak to her, if that is what I should do. I need to but am unsure how or what to say exactly. It will reveal our deepest fears and hopes for the future at working together. The guy in the card looks relaxed and happy, so I am taking it to mean things will improve for our working relationship. This is the most difficult card and the 4th part too for me to figure out what to do and say and what will the outcome be.
Regards
tara
Here is a Stalemate Spread I did for my own issue with a woman I work closely with. Three days a week, we are the only two in our area in charge of vulnerable adults. Although we both earn the same and neither have a contract, she has the most experience and is senior to me. She does not communicate to me regarding work and I often hear the news through clients instead. This I need to sort assertively and I need your advice, as i am afraid I will make it worse if I do not say the right thing to her. I used the World Spirit Tarot and got
1. The overall conflict/situation – Knight of Wands (Seeker) – We are both driven to succeed or at least we are both hard workers who bring a lot to the table and use our initiative. I want to progress and I now have the qualification to have her job if it were available. She is more easy-going than I am and has the upper hand and is keeping me down I feel, by not keeping me informed. I am in the rebellious mood now and sick of it and her. I want to deal with it assertively sooner rather than later as it is obvious we don’t like each other. I don’t know if she is being thoughtless or simply bullying me as she also ignores me sometimes when I ask her a question but I can’t prove she heard me, so…
2. How they really feel about you – Five of Wands – She feels like I am competitive or maybe she feels that we are both competing with each other and there is jealousy involved and power struggle perhaps. She is well aware there is conflict between us, (close to the surface on my side, but she has no idea probably how much it upsets me, or does she).
3. How you really feel about them – The Hanged Man – I think she has ulterior motives for keeping me down and is deliberately not communicating with me, not just on a professional level but also a personal one.
4. Common Grounds (what the 2 of you have in common and can use to help the situation) – Eight of Cups – We are both unhappy in that area and want to move on and forward. She gets the same pay as I do for leading in our little space and we are both relief workers without a contract. Neither is fulfilled in that sense.
5. Outcome – Seven of Cups – We could both have choices when I speak to her, if that is what I should do. I need to but am unsure how or what to say exactly. It will reveal our deepest fears and hopes for the future at working together. The guy in the card looks relaxed and happy, so I am taking it to mean things will improve for our working relationship. This is the most difficult card and the 4th part too for me to figure out what to do and say and what will the outcome be.
Regards
tara