willowfox said:
I think that it is important to do an on site reading, that is where the energy is and that is where you will find your answer. You won't find ghosts in the local cemetery by sitting in front of the TV at home. I recommend using a pendulum as well. It's all about location, location, location, so if you ain't there you ain't going to see or feel anything much.
You can find spirits wherever you put your intention, if you're good enough at it . You don't have to be in the location at all . That's how people are able to do readings for one another over the internet , that's how we can sit in an online circle in a chatroom and talk to spirits . Valeria explored my whole house in a chatroom circle and came up with a bunch !
People even do remote clearings without ever visiting a location in person .Michael released a couple of spirits from my home , and he's in England I am in the US . Never set foot in the door ,-- physically that is.
If you want to explore the cemetery and any spirits there from in front of your television , you can do it if you develop yourself . (Though I recommend turning the tv off and focusing on the task at hand . )
Which reminds me of a time in the mediumship circle when Ming kept coming up with Isobel over and over , and after we ended I started googling my address for names of people who might have lived in this house before and came up with a cemetery record for a woman who lived across the street and died around the turn of the century - named Isabelle .
There can be spirits in new houses . They can be attached to the land . They can visit from across the street . They can decide they've taken a liking to your light and follow you home from the mall . You can have antiques and used items that they are attached to also . They can pop over with Aunt Betty and decide they like your house better . They can even be attached to you , and move with you from your previous residence . You've never noticed and got so used to it you thought it was just your own energy , which is why it's helpful to have another sensitive take a peek at you once in a while .
When you have no experience, no one to guide you , and don't know what you're dealing with , it's better and safer to connect through your guide . Not all spirits are pleasant or friendly or anxious to move on .
Hopefully this is just a case of energy that needs to be cleared and nothing more .