The 4 of cups.

Knight of Wands

I wrote this post a while ago, maybe it'll help.

4 of Cups
 

cherryberry

so, to me the card usually suggests that the position the person is in is actually quite ok -not very exciting- but definetly not all bad. Still they 'feel' something is missing and that missing thing is in fact offered. And the 'solution' to feel happier is an outside influence or gift. So, they are not alone, they are supported, but they do not feel this yet. So I have to say, it sometime comes across to me a bit as - not to offend anyone- someone who feels a bit self-pity...and kind of - like to dwell on this as well...