Yora
thank you. I do use a dream dictionary for help. "The A-Z Dream Dictionary". it's wonderful!
I know you are right about putting yourself first. I am always being told that, but it's not as easy to do when you are use to always jumping to help someone else first. lol. but, lately I have been doing that. One of these 'people' who hurt me awhile back did recently say something about me being selfish lately. "yep. that's me! selfish!" "I'm taking care of ME first now!" I replied.
Yora, I cannot wait to start on your question tonight!
Yes it is hard!!! Maybe more at first, but when you get used to it and feel how healthy it is you will more naturally make the right choice more for yourself. And hopefully you shall be loving its! And that person can go get in line with the dead mink in the sink!!