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We are hoping for your thoughts about this reading in regards to our family crisis. My exwife took my daughter for a supposed 3 week vacation to overseas. We found out the day before they were supposed to return that she was staying when she emailed our other kids. We are going through government channels to have them brought back. We both did a spread for guidance but as we are so close to the situation and emotional over it, we are not sure what to make of the reading. We are asking for the opinions of experienced Tarot readers and of those that are not close to the situation. Any feedback is greatly appreciated
His Spread: Success Spread Question asked: Show me how to get daughter back in America.
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2-1-3
5
1-Central Issue-(12 The Hanged Man) Our Interpretation:
Don't rush. Be patient and keep researching and remember that it is progress even though it may feel like spinning your wheels. Just because I've been sacrificed, all is not lost. Because I can emerge as the victor. Be patient and let evens unfold, but be meticulous and recheck everything and keep looking for different avenues.
2-Current Challenges-(11 Strength -My wife's card) Our Interpretation: Being calm and patient is extremely hard in this situation. Your inner strength has taken a major blow. Find this strength and don't be afraid to lean on others. This is going to take longer than you want. Be patient with all those around you. You have the strength to make it through this and the support from others that you need. Rely on your wife; be patient with her and the situation. We've never done this so mistakes will be made.
3-Underlying/Hidden Factors-(3 Swords) Our interpretation: You have the actual pain of heartbreak and betrayal. You need to be aware of this pain and don't let it overwhelm you. Listen to your inner voice and don't let your anger lead your decisions. Pay close attention to the people directly involved in this situation. Don't trust anyone from your exwife's family and even take information from any trusted source with a grain of salt because this information may have been passed to them because they knew they would tell you and the information is false. Always remember getting your daughter back is most important and not revenge against anyone.
4-Things that can help-(7 The Chariot My mom,dad, and sisters card) Our interpretation: You need to believe and see your victory. Use this confidence to drive you in what needs to be done. Don't be afraid to listen to advice from those related to it. Perhaps Dad or your sister will have some advice. Perhaps Your wife's input will keep you from being over the top in the way you attack situations but I need self control (maybe your wife can help with that) and if I can maintain control may I can the day.
5-Action needed for Success-(4 Swords) Our interpretation: While you want this to be done now, you must relax and make sure we are completely prepared. Look at all the possibilities, use meditation, breathing exercises to hear your inner voice. To get the best out of this situation I'm going to need patience, control, and faith. Don't get over anxious. Remember you're one day closer. You're going to need to control your anxiety and temper even if it means putting this situation on the back burner. To help with all those, rely on your faith that has brought you everything you've asked for, your faith in a positive outlook, your faith in intuition/inner voice/signs. Be prepared, things always seem to be stagnate for a time and then suddenly explode into action and move fast, so in the meantime, don't procrastinate, check and recheck all your bases, and have all your tasks done.
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To moderator: if we posted this in the wrong section, please let us know so that we can put it in the right place. Thank you.
His Spread: Success Spread Question asked: Show me how to get daughter back in America.
4
2-1-3
5
1-Central Issue-(12 The Hanged Man) Our Interpretation:
Don't rush. Be patient and keep researching and remember that it is progress even though it may feel like spinning your wheels. Just because I've been sacrificed, all is not lost. Because I can emerge as the victor. Be patient and let evens unfold, but be meticulous and recheck everything and keep looking for different avenues.
2-Current Challenges-(11 Strength -My wife's card) Our Interpretation: Being calm and patient is extremely hard in this situation. Your inner strength has taken a major blow. Find this strength and don't be afraid to lean on others. This is going to take longer than you want. Be patient with all those around you. You have the strength to make it through this and the support from others that you need. Rely on your wife; be patient with her and the situation. We've never done this so mistakes will be made.
3-Underlying/Hidden Factors-(3 Swords) Our interpretation: You have the actual pain of heartbreak and betrayal. You need to be aware of this pain and don't let it overwhelm you. Listen to your inner voice and don't let your anger lead your decisions. Pay close attention to the people directly involved in this situation. Don't trust anyone from your exwife's family and even take information from any trusted source with a grain of salt because this information may have been passed to them because they knew they would tell you and the information is false. Always remember getting your daughter back is most important and not revenge against anyone.
4-Things that can help-(7 The Chariot My mom,dad, and sisters card) Our interpretation: You need to believe and see your victory. Use this confidence to drive you in what needs to be done. Don't be afraid to listen to advice from those related to it. Perhaps Dad or your sister will have some advice. Perhaps Your wife's input will keep you from being over the top in the way you attack situations but I need self control (maybe your wife can help with that) and if I can maintain control may I can the day.
5-Action needed for Success-(4 Swords) Our interpretation: While you want this to be done now, you must relax and make sure we are completely prepared. Look at all the possibilities, use meditation, breathing exercises to hear your inner voice. To get the best out of this situation I'm going to need patience, control, and faith. Don't get over anxious. Remember you're one day closer. You're going to need to control your anxiety and temper even if it means putting this situation on the back burner. To help with all those, rely on your faith that has brought you everything you've asked for, your faith in a positive outlook, your faith in intuition/inner voice/signs. Be prepared, things always seem to be stagnate for a time and then suddenly explode into action and move fast, so in the meantime, don't procrastinate, check and recheck all your bases, and have all your tasks done.
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To moderator: if we posted this in the wrong section, please let us know so that we can put it in the right place. Thank you.