Quote:Originally posted by firemaiden
I think of the four of coins as being about the solid foundation. I guess both fours could be about foundation... but how to differentiate?
The difference is that 4/coins isn't about a solid foundation--it's about having a lot, and being afraid of letting any of it go. In romance, this means you've GOT the one you love--but you want them to stay at home, with you, all the time. In business, this means a successful business, but you're afraid to branch out, to spend money. In career this means you're successful, but you're not going to share any secrets to that success, they're yours and yours alone.
You get the idea.
This is very different from working so VERY hard to create a solid relationship with the one you love. Living together, working out differences together--to the point where you feel that YES, it's time to tie the knot. Or building up your career to the point where you feel, YES, from here, you can get to the top.
Think of it this way: 4/Coins: a guy sells baked goods out of his home. Suddenly, his business takes off. His special cookies and cakes are in demand. He makes tons of money. "Why not use all that money to invest it in bakery?" someone asks. "No way!" He answers. "If I do that, I may lose it all! This money stays here, and I'll keep selling out of my house." Very frugal.
4/Wands is the opposite. A man says, "I want to open a bakery!" So he gets a small business loan for the bakery and the equiptment, he interviewes and hires employees to work behind the counter, he puts out advertising, works on the recipes....months and months of setting everything up. And now, everything is baked up and on display, the employees are in place and....4/Wands. Time to open the doors and see what this baby can do. And if they did everything right, laid a strong foundation, then that business will do well.
See the difference? But if "Foundation" is throwing you off, let's try this. A writer who's been sending out their first novel--and getting repeated rejections--comes to me and asks, "Will I ever be a famous author?" They get 4/Wands. I say, "That novel you've been sending out--someone's going to publish it."
Now that's not their ultimate goal. Their ultimate goal is to be a "Famous Author"--but the first essential and important step to achieving that is, well, to get published. And they'll certainly celebrate that first publication. 4/Wands. The first, important step to achieving your ultimate goal has been reached. Like getting to the first plateau on a climb up to the mountain top. There are many more steps to go, including setbacks and victories, but you can take a minute, rest and celebrate that first modest, but all important achievement.