zhadee
I did not read the background story, I'll focus on the cards' message and the question.
First line: Your friend would 'sneak' into the wrong house
Second line: the man is bound to an ideal. She may find his attachment attractive - like a girl who falls in love with a guitar player.
Third line: your friend's a bit naive, and not fully grown up. She faces a major obstacle.
Now this 3rd line may of course be her child she wants to be with, so she does not leave her marriage. But it may also be that she lacks the inner poise of mastering the task which demands something else but childlike innocense and intense wishful thinking. She may like thinking of pursueing a relationship (Lady + Ring), but the nature of that relationship could be something dreamlike (Ring + Stars).
The centre of the spread is the Ring. Let's look deeper into that connection. I'll combine each card with the Ring
a) toxic (Snake). The Snake may also be 'the other woman'. Your friend may decide to cheat on her husband for the sake of her child to taste the 'forbidden fruit'.
b) confined (House). The House is something secret as nobody knows what's happening behind closed doors. It's also someting physical referring to the body.
c) sexy (Fox). Now, the cards are upfront. Your friend is a 'foxy' lady.
This could hint that your friend is looking for the sexual aspect.
d) active (Man). It's either that she wants to chosen by the man she is interested in, or she wants to signal to her husband that the marriage is in danger.
e) idealistic (Star). Marriage is not romantic. When the honeymoon is over, something changes. Like Venus transforms to Moon or Saturn (sorry, can't help thinking of Saturn as the sourpuss wife). Or Mars transforms into Sun or Uranus (the Iceman). If your friend is in love with romance and eternal courtship, she gets pretty easily bored with the confinements of marriage. Which is in essence the union of two families' fortunes.
f) curious (Child). The urge to discover and explore. The joys of newness.
g) womanhood (Woman). In order to be a real woman, you friend may believe that she needs to be in a relationship. She may feel the need to be attached to another person.
h) significant (Cross). That could be a burden - your friend may feel guilty about not being happy in her marriage. You friend may also look for a significant person in order to raise her self-esteem.
If it's about the guitar player, your friend could as easily pick any streetmusician who knows how to play the guitar. But she could be looking for something else instead. Like fame, fortune, good-looks. Or being chosen by such a capricious person.
Your cards, your perception. This is your advice. =) Your friend came to you for help. These cards are your message.
A) You see that there's something wrong about the marriage. Could be the rough patch to master. And master she should, you seem to think or else you would not have picked the Key. The Key secures the Ring.
B) Going into the unknown, blwoing up dust in order to follow the passion which is likely to flatten and bottom out over time.
