starlite
irisa said:I agree absolutely for me the power of tarot is in a sitter leaving feeling enabled rather than disabled. Feeling they have options, the ability to make choices and control their lives is enabled. This-that will happen, it's in the cards, nothing you can do about it or you must do this-that, is disabling imo. Yeah sure if people rely on the cards to make the decisions for them they keep coming back for readings but the moral responsibilty for the mess that ensues is who's? I learnt this harsh lesson early on from witnessing the fall out, (long story - short) a friend of mine was told in a reading that there was another woman - there wasn't - but one reader's confidence that they were telling the truth and utter belief they were right ruined a marriage and left two little boys with a sadly different childhood. Once I became interested in the cards myself (many years later) I didn't read for anyone else but myself for a very long time.
irisa
thanks irisa. your friend's experience, unfortunately, is a perfect example of what i'm trying to say.
also, i had readings where i was told this/that was going to happen. i have called a few on this and asked for an explanation about why it didn't pan out and they weren't able to give me a reason other than an 'energy shift'.
a reader's responsibility, imo, is to admit that they can simply be wrong at times, that although they felt strongly about it, their interpretation could have been off. when readers can't admit to this possibility, is where there is a definite abuse of power and elitism. that's not okay with me.