how can it be good and favourable ?
consider this,,
you are a squire in a army,, or a peasant and under the thumb of a ruthless tyrant. picture the king of england in braveheart perhaps.
and you are praying for his demise..
then all the sudden you see the tower and you say YAY HE WILL FALL..
now picture this ,, siciliy just joking but in today world
you are under the thumb of a ruthless overseer and the boss ddoens't know how he treats his workers ..
and you see the tower and fear that means he will get promoted..
but then find out that he was let go for he was creating the fire in the office sort to speak and had to be kick off the tower...
now picture this, your life is going along as happily as you please,, not a care in the world,, but extremely bored..
why ? because you are keeping your true self buried,, your true feelings buried.
then the tower comes and because of it,, your husband or your wife job commits her or him to move to the west coast.
and you say NOOOO ,, i am not happy here but at least i know this area,
why would it be differnt at the west coast,, we would still be the same people.
i want a change..
and they go leaving you there, and at first it is hard,, but you get stronger ,, feeling proud and alive agian..
then they come back asking you to coe with them and they are sorry and they can try a marriage counselor. ?
now consider the tower reversed..
you are the person who doens't want change due to fear. and what could happen ,,sure things can get better but they can get much worse ??????
and you are doing everything to avoid the tower for after all it is reversed that means you stopped it right ?
but no you only slowed it down and then it hits ,,
and you have to rebuild your life.
but now you have the chance to be a new emperess,, to travel the land by chariot..
or to renew your relationship as it was getting boring and stagnant.