SirRushing
I know a lot of people who want to believe in love want to see 2 cups as some wonderful thing, or maybe Lovers, too in regards to soulmates and asking tarot if "such and so and so" is your soulmate.
If you see this, you need be wary. I got this card in the beginning of this year, concerning my ex-boyfriend for the "are we soulmates" question. We were having so many problems in our relationship that was not good at all.When I saw this card, I thought "Okay, we have tons of issues, but this card means that we love each other very much. And that we were perfect for each other."
After he has done some manipulating, controlling and deceitful things to me last month which made me realize that I can't take being in a relationship with him anymore, I just realized what this card meant.
Seeing a 2 Cups does not mean you are perfect for each other in a positive way. Now if you two get along and have a wonderful relationship, then 2 cups means that you two were made for each other. However if you are in an abusive, negative, stressful relationship where one partner is controlling and dominating and the other is passive and keeps forgiving their partner's behavior when they shouldn't be doing that....then they are perfect for each other, too.
That why when you see abusive relationships and you think, "Why is she staying with him. He is so mean and cruel to her?" It is because there is something in that persons personality that needs, or feels they deserve to be abused even when they say that they hate it. People lie to other people and to themselves all the time and play like they are in denial of their bad situation.
Only abusive people date someone who is a stupid doormat. Only stupid doormats keep attracting abusive people. Plain and simple. Therefore, they are perfect Soulmates for each other. Therefore, you might see a 2 Cups with these people.
Masochists needs a Sadists. A sadist needs a masochist.
And yes, I considered myself a doormat, I kept tolerating my ex-boyfriend's behavior, because I was "In love" and I was hoping the more I tried to tell him to act and do better he would see his ways and change. Well, he didn't. Our relationship became a game of he would do something disrespectful, I would mention it, he would say either "You are being too sensitive and is imagining things" or he would say he was sorry, but did it again.
Soulmates doesn't mean they are the perfect nice person for you. It just means they are the perfect person for your personality and your level self-esteem and self-respect you have for yourself. And seeing a 2 Cups will reflect that.
Therefore be careful, when doing relationship readings when seeing a 2 Cups. It is all about likes attracting likes, or opposites attracting each other for better....or for worst.
If you see this, you need be wary. I got this card in the beginning of this year, concerning my ex-boyfriend for the "are we soulmates" question. We were having so many problems in our relationship that was not good at all.When I saw this card, I thought "Okay, we have tons of issues, but this card means that we love each other very much. And that we were perfect for each other."
After he has done some manipulating, controlling and deceitful things to me last month which made me realize that I can't take being in a relationship with him anymore, I just realized what this card meant.
Seeing a 2 Cups does not mean you are perfect for each other in a positive way. Now if you two get along and have a wonderful relationship, then 2 cups means that you two were made for each other. However if you are in an abusive, negative, stressful relationship where one partner is controlling and dominating and the other is passive and keeps forgiving their partner's behavior when they shouldn't be doing that....then they are perfect for each other, too.
That why when you see abusive relationships and you think, "Why is she staying with him. He is so mean and cruel to her?" It is because there is something in that persons personality that needs, or feels they deserve to be abused even when they say that they hate it. People lie to other people and to themselves all the time and play like they are in denial of their bad situation.
Only abusive people date someone who is a stupid doormat. Only stupid doormats keep attracting abusive people. Plain and simple. Therefore, they are perfect Soulmates for each other. Therefore, you might see a 2 Cups with these people.
Masochists needs a Sadists. A sadist needs a masochist.
And yes, I considered myself a doormat, I kept tolerating my ex-boyfriend's behavior, because I was "In love" and I was hoping the more I tried to tell him to act and do better he would see his ways and change. Well, he didn't. Our relationship became a game of he would do something disrespectful, I would mention it, he would say either "You are being too sensitive and is imagining things" or he would say he was sorry, but did it again.
Soulmates doesn't mean they are the perfect nice person for you. It just means they are the perfect person for your personality and your level self-esteem and self-respect you have for yourself. And seeing a 2 Cups will reflect that.
Therefore be careful, when doing relationship readings when seeing a 2 Cups. It is all about likes attracting likes, or opposites attracting each other for better....or for worst.