nisaba
If she is one of those people to whom mother-love is smother-love, that might be why.Well yes, but I think her concern is his happiness. She can tell he isn't happy,
A love of art, grooming, The Voice, even hanging around with men isn't an indicator of anything. I know perfectly straight men whom people would swear are gay because of stereotypical views.and she has seen some signs that might indicate he is gay.
I didn't say it was, and I'm certain she does. But a mother who clucks over her kid and tries to be protective of them when they are an adult *is* going to get a negative reaction from them. Perhaps away from her prying eyes, when he feels free, he is entirely cheerful.It's not about "blame" or "prying into his life" for her. She wants him to be happy,
That is his own business. Do I have to open a conversation with my own mother about the fact that I have different-coloured eyes to hers? Or a different gender-preference? Come to that, has *she* ever sat him down and explained gently to him that she's straight but that she loves him anyway? No? So why should he?and if it were the case he was gay, she wants to start that conversation with him because it seems to her that he won't.
In her company, and according to her? Or universally, and according to people who know him in all different areas of his life?He has definitely had periods of withdrawal and depression.
He is like a Hermit sometimes to her which isn't normal because they are so close. I think this lady's question is a valid one given the circumstances.
Perhaps SHE thinks they are so close, and he wants her to let him grow up and live his own life, which is why he's withdrawing from her.
Parents are meant to look after their children's emotional needs during childhood. Children are NOT meant to look after their parent's emotional needs in adulthood.