One more example - when I was asking about my job situation (I didn't have it at the time), I was getting
Lovers card all the time. I couldn't understand it.
What happened was: I went to do some work for someone and this person during my work recognized that I should stay there with him on a permanent basis. He employed me, became my boss and we forged a beautiful connection. We clicked. BUT - at first, there were many struggles, a lot of conversation, talk, sharing, and A LOT of fighting. And yes, there was also the attraction, oh yes
It was very difficult because he was my boss and also involved with someone else with whom he now has a family.
But we moved past the struggles, we both learnt a lot and now I have been working for him for years and we have a beautiful connection. Nothing sexual, but we share almost everything, as human beings. There is this CONNECTION and we support each other. We are partners, indeed. Probably, if we had met in different ciscumstances, we could have really been
lovers as a couple.
And last time my boss said to me:
I have grown spiritually because of you. I needed to go beyond my limitations to keep up with you. I became more mature.
It was the biggest compliment he could give me.
This is Lovers for me. And certainly Tarot predicted it - with the LOVERS card. It predicted the attraction - between man and a woman which was certainly there, the attraction of my boss for a potential employee (he felt I should work for him without seeing my references, without knowing anything about me), and the growth that this kind of connection brings. Talk, sharing, learning from each other.
But we are not 'soulmates', we do not have sex and we are not a couple. But Lovers we are
Lovers are two people sharing. The problem is that people connect Love with sex and marriage or commitment too easily, while it has nothing to do with that. Love is a cool, silent phenomenon of reflecting yourself in another.