Yes, it's been an emotive topic, this one, and I fear I've added fuel to the fire... If the guy really is a charlatan, that is not good, but I'm not persuaded that he is. Danieljuk, I'm sorry to hear that you bore the brunt of someone's cruelty. I'm sorry if lightrail did, too. Upsetting someone is never a good thing, and not very often useful, either, unless supplemented by helpful information. I think that is what he was trying to offer, in his words about transfer of knowledge from one generation to the next. That apparently added another layer of fear, as it sounds as though it is not something you are comfortable with, but in many, many cultures people look to their ancestors (present or past) for guidance and insight. To me, that concept is not a frightening thing, so when I first read lightrail's post, I thought she was just wondering if that was an ok thing to say, and didn't feel that she was so severely impacted by the readers words, and was simply looking at it as a "whoa, that's interesting" thing... I guess I read her wrong ...
I don't equate generational issues with external, evil curses sent to destroy people. I just think there's a possibility that this guy acknowledges 'baggage' for what it is; something that has the potential to negatively imoact someone if they don't acknowledge and attend to it. Perhaps he doesn't find the word curse as threatening as many people do, and it may have been either sloppy language use, or simply a different understanding of that word... "Curse", as used in that link in an earlier post, really was just your everyday common baggage as in negative messages to self, and therefore can be viewed as somehow less scary... (I am of the school of thought, though, where negative messages to Self are acknowledged as very serious issues in their own right... Just IMHO
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I hadn't thought of the "which card would actually translate as curse", in truth... I guess that didn't occur to me because I don't read one card at a time... Not really... In a one card for the day layout, of course, but I actually do my readings intuitively rather than by the book, and so I look at the overall story that is laid out in front of me before I start relating it back to the sitter.. The way the cards interrelate, the actual dynamic created by that mix, is the energy I pick up on... Having said that, though, I realised a while ago that I wasn't so keen on doing paid readings... I got some really amazing feedback at Spiritual wellbeing festivals and the like, but it just wasn't my thing, and I discovered that I'd rather get information for people through my art, so I'm certainly not the most well-informed person on such matters...
I guess my only real purpose in posting is offering an alternative view, and seeing the guy from a different perspective.. Clumsy, or at least using an unfamiliar choice of wording.... and insensitive to others, and even showing a capacity to cause distress, may be undesirable, but still doesn't make him an unethical charlatan who plans to request repeat reading sessions simply in order to milk an ongoing income. If the reader feels a genuine need to glean more information from that reader at a later date, that would be her prerogative.
Anyway, it is fairly clear that, in this instance, following someone else's recommendation hasn't been a total success for lightrail... Although the reader is not unethical, to my way of thinking, he has inadvertently distressed the sitter, so perhaps, if the sitter feels such distress, she might be best avoiding him. Even more useful, though, would be to contact him again, be honest, let him know that his words distressed the sitter, and ask for clarification. If it were me, I would have requested that he clarify what he meant by it when he mentioned the curse.. It might have been fascinating, once it moved beyond scary :-? And I'd still prefer honesty, even clumsly delivered...
Many blessings to all