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l have already posted here my thoughts on the World card (2nd post) and that l do not see it as negative.
Would like to show the meaning here from The Victorian Fairy Tarot.
"Something significant has been completed in your life. Take time to understand the lessons you have learned along the way and recognize how far you have travelled. Contemplate and release the past, and embrace the future with a heart full of joy. The meanings here are completion, wholeness, seeing the pattern of life, connection with the world."
That is quiet well put and worded. For me; here is the best part;
Contemplate and release the past, and embrace the future with a heart full of joy.
We cant change the past, we can only decide to accept it, or reject it, or accept someone's past or reject them. We can however deal with the results of the past. No one knows what the future holds .... it can drag on unchanging or everything can change in a flash and take totally new directions. All we have is the present. And the more in the present, the more in the moment we are, the better we are able to deal with life, the more intense it gets, the more in the moment we must become .... with intense pain for example, its a second by second existence .... if I can just get through tonight, thats another day ... take it one day at a time, etc.
Life and the 'world' has its ups and downs, it is how we deal with them that makes things better or worse for us, we cant blame that on the World card. Of course, it has two sides, like all the cards; if something has two sides one can decide it is either/or or neither (that is, being a whole of two parts it cannot be one or the other, in itself, without an influence to bring out a side, it is something else, its central principle. Its central principle does not seem learning toward the bad IMO, that is bought about in a reading by placement, influence, reversal, etc or in the consciousness of the person.
Of course life has sorrow and suffering in it. I experience that too ... I am not Buddha , as a boy living behind the garden walls and shielded from suffering, nor am I Baron Harkonnen. Real grief never disappears - one learns to live with it however, and carry on .... somehow. But that is all part of life. Its harder for some and some have much harder conditions and experiences .... I am talking about a LOT more than a relationship breakup here. Thats where compassion comes in.
Sure, I can shake my fist at the sky and curse 'God' , I can have pain and sorrow I wish I didnt have but that is all effecting me on another level ... like bad physical pain, one learns to 'put it somewhere else'. I helped to look after a 98 year old guy once ; he had been to 3 wars , had one friend left, 2 family members , everyone else in his life had died, he could hardly walk anymore but he did everyday and everyday he told me it was a great day and good to be alive.
Although your journey has been fraught bless you and you cannot see any joy for the future l feel the World card holds out the hope when we can only see despair. Its about starting out over again and finding that connection with life again.
Yes
Contemplate and release the past, and embrace the future with a heart full of joy.
(Look at ME quoting fairy tarot )
This is what many of the refugees I worked with did. At times they were still in despair, shock or damage control from what had happened to them (one woman showed me her torture marks where pieces of her body were missing ) - that is when compassion and sensitivity is needed ... but later " Its about starting out over again and finding that connection with life again" and I think the world card is a wonderful image for that.
IF one understands the symbolism and message.