This is interesting to me. I mostly use the cards for myself to see diff sides of a situation-check to see if there I things I am overlooking or that I could be doing differently. As far as the predictive part, I don't intentionally read for predictions, but sometimes they just happen. What I'm trying to get at is, well- don't you ever just "know" the future and how something will turn out - not just in readings but in life, in general? When a friend says- Oh, I'm moving here and things will be like this and this, and everything she is saying is going completely against what I "KNOW" will actually happen. When I get emails or read posts, often I know what it going to happen- not always. Anyway- I think that having the cards are a tangible thing that people can see and sometimes may be taken more seriously than if I just say what I know without them.
I may not be making any sense- it's 5:20 am and I've barely had 3 sips of coffee- but I guess what I'm trying to say is, the butterfly effect seems more evident to me when I use the cards than when I don't. Because I feel like people are paying closer attention- or something.
no , I understand.
and although I cant say I "know " the future in the way you describe, I sometimes do see it in the cards , even if it wasnt my intention I get to know the most probable outcome , and I can see where you're coming from.
the reason why I dont really like predictive readings ( for myself) is that I alsways try to take my life and the events in it in my own hands.
for example , if I was going to go on a trip and I wanted to have a great time and have fun , and I did a predictive reading and found out it was gonna be pretty lame or boring , I would still go and try and have fun and a great time! and in that case what would have been the point of having a predictive reading?
I think it would be harder for me to go and try to have fun time if I alredy knew it was gonna be lame.
the same with dating or anything else , there's no rush , I can find out about most these things when they happen
why would I deny myself of actually living it? but oif course if someone else wants a predictive reading that's great , and I'll go ahead and do it for them. and it can be very usefull for important desicions.
but I preffer advice readings " what would be the best way to have fun/meet a guy/have a good relatuionship/get a good job" etc
because if the future can be changed thats all I need to know , that it CAN be changed , and then strive to have the best future I can, surprises and all.
sure I could've take an umbrella yesterday , but I'd have missed getting wet and having fun with my freiends ,we wouldnt have seen the trip back home as an adventure! we wouldnt have stolen trash bags from the janitors closet, we wouldnt have had those amazing hours of fun!
because in the end, it is life that deals the cards , but we're the one's who choose how to play them
I think shakespeare said that or something lol