Umbrae
Let’s dig a bit deeper into the question, because it’s a really important question, but we got sidetracked on the misuse of the term ‘cold reading’.
The thesis question is:
We have posts and posts on spreads and meanings and shuffling and cutting…and not a lot on the question. Without a proper question, it matters not what deck, what spread, or what moon phase - you're going to get *&#_@.
I usually ask a sitter to think upon the subject area, or if they have a specific question to write it down. I’ll tell them to be specific. Sometimes I’ll help them rewrite it. I’m not here to play ‘guess the question’, that’s for magicians, mentalists, and cold readers. I’m a Tarot Reader.
Let’s see what Lon Milo DuQuette says:
If you’re going to use a question – it had better be really specific, or the answer will be as ambiguous as the question.
Over in this other thread we were discussing this same thing also, how the sitter and readers bias can affect the result in ‘third person’ readings due to what boils down to a real basic flaw – a poorly stated question.
So folks…here’s the kicker…
Ya wanna read Tarot for strangers? Either spend 5-10 minutes of a 30 minute reading getting the question correct, or use no question at all – and trust the cards.
Only my opinion…
The thesis question is:
I say it’s great to give a reading without knowing the question. Here’s the point about the question…pixie65 said:…we were wondering whether it was ok to ask the person you are reading for what their question is?
We have posts and posts on spreads and meanings and shuffling and cutting…and not a lot on the question. Without a proper question, it matters not what deck, what spread, or what moon phase - you're going to get *&#_@.
I usually ask a sitter to think upon the subject area, or if they have a specific question to write it down. I’ll tell them to be specific. Sometimes I’ll help them rewrite it. I’m not here to play ‘guess the question’, that’s for magicians, mentalists, and cold readers. I’m a Tarot Reader.
Let’s see what Lon Milo DuQuette says:
SECRET #6: THE QUESTION IS MORE IMPORTANT
THAN THE ANSWER
In his book Physics and Philosophy, Werner Heisenberg (1901-1976), one of the greatest physicists of the 20th century and one of the founders of quantum mechanics, said, "Nature never reveals itself to us as it is, but rather always through the questions we put to it:' He was obviously aware of the fortune-teller's sixth great secret.
The oracle knows everything, but for heaven's sake, don't expect it to read your mind when your mind hasn't even formulated a decent question! When it comes to consulting an oracle, you've got to do some work. You've got to be specific with your questions. If you haven't sufficiently formulated in your own mind what you want to know, then there is nothing to which the Superior Intelligence can respond.
Don't ask things like, "Should I quit my job and accept this new job offer?"
You'll get an answer for sure, and the answer will be, "What kind of ridiculous question is that? What are you asking here?"
"Should you?" Maybe you should because it will be good for your old boss, who wishes you were gone so he could hire someone who'll work for less money?
"Should you?" Maybe you should because your new boss will now have you to replace the last poor idiot he or she drove insane?
"Should you?" Maybe you should because, at your new job, you will accidentally blow up the factory, killing yourself and half the town, including a little baby who was destined to grow up to be worse than Hitler and destroy the world?
"Should you?" How do you expect the oracle to answer that?
The oracle could answer, "For heaven's sake no! You'll kill a little baby; or "Hell yes! Go ahead. Make your enemies happy. Save the planet!"
You've got to be specific. Give your question some thought and narrow it down to what you really want answered. When you become truly serious about your question, when you discard all the stupid little questions that address only the symptoms of your predicament, when you finally come to terms with yourself as to what you really want to know, then the question becomes the answer. In that golden moment, the answer is everywhere, and you can see it in anything you observe.
I'm going to repeat that in bold letters:
When you actually know the question, the answer is everywhere, and you can see it in anything you observe.
Lon Milo DuQuette – The Book of Ordinary Oracles
some editorial emphasis added
If you’re going to use a question – it had better be really specific, or the answer will be as ambiguous as the question.
Over in this other thread we were discussing this same thing also, how the sitter and readers bias can affect the result in ‘third person’ readings due to what boils down to a real basic flaw – a poorly stated question.
So folks…here’s the kicker…
Ya wanna read Tarot for strangers? Either spend 5-10 minutes of a 30 minute reading getting the question correct, or use no question at all – and trust the cards.
Only my opinion…