obeygravity
Had a friend come by again asking for a reading on her and her current guy. Met him a few times and have done some readings in the past that give me the willies (posted about a card combo Here. Needless to say, things have been getting more tumultuous, with more arguing and she wanted some further insights on the energies in the relationship. Trying to be impartial but nothing about this looks good, be it in person or in the cards but would still appreciate some extra input because, just like in the past, these cards make me pretty weary of this guy.
1) The center of the relationship - The Tower - accurate my they've been arguing and it seems like the structure of their connection wasn't as stable as my friend was hoping they'd be.
2) The common link in the relationship - Page of Swords RX - lies? Deception? There's a lack of clarity going on. A lack of honesty and being forthright. As the common link however, maybe it's saying an avoidance towards reality on both of their parts.
3) You- hopes for the relationship - The Hanged Man - I see this as patience and time being what's needed to heal what's pained between the two of them. That there'll be a moment of clarity and all will smooth out on its own.
4) You- emotions of the heart - Eight of Wands - She's fallen for him pretty hard. Her mind is, essentially, Blown by him.
5) You- what you can do for your partner - Ten of Swords - Help create closure to what ails him?
6) You- the part of you that hurts the relationship - Six of Cups - She's romanticizing? Looking at things with rose colored glasses?
7) Partner- hopes for the relationship - The Empress Reversed - Now I'm stumped. I can see this card easily as a fear but as a hope? Perhaps it's that he's looking to be taken care of. To receive constantly without giving?
8) Partner- emotions of the heart - The Hermit RX - This is another card that makes me weary. It's come up before in similar positions regarding this guy. He's lost, confused, avoiding some real truths.
9) Partner- what he can do for her - Sun RX - another reversed card. This gives me two feelings - either he can do nothing or he can give her false hope.
10) Partner- the part of him that hurts the relationship - Lovers RX - either he's not as into her as he tries to tell her, or he's not actually interested in fully committing (which is a worry she already has regarding him).
11) Strengths of the relationship - Eight of Cups RX - another card I'm not sure how to read positively - perhaps it's that they're both unwilling to give up and walk away?
12) Weaknesses of the relationship - Five of Cups RX - this seems to mirror the Eight of Cups RX. That they're also unwilling to see what's lost in the connection.
I drew an extra card to see what will happen in a months time since things are so unstable and got Nine of Pentacles which, like in previous readings for her - there's always a Nine in the outcome. The good is that it's no longer the Nine of Swords which came up last time I read for her, so perhaps she'll end up walking away from this feeling whole and unscathed and for the better.
Edit: I also just noticed that his entire side is reversed which... Does not seem to bode particularly well either.
1) The center of the relationship - The Tower - accurate my they've been arguing and it seems like the structure of their connection wasn't as stable as my friend was hoping they'd be.
2) The common link in the relationship - Page of Swords RX - lies? Deception? There's a lack of clarity going on. A lack of honesty and being forthright. As the common link however, maybe it's saying an avoidance towards reality on both of their parts.
3) You- hopes for the relationship - The Hanged Man - I see this as patience and time being what's needed to heal what's pained between the two of them. That there'll be a moment of clarity and all will smooth out on its own.
4) You- emotions of the heart - Eight of Wands - She's fallen for him pretty hard. Her mind is, essentially, Blown by him.
5) You- what you can do for your partner - Ten of Swords - Help create closure to what ails him?
6) You- the part of you that hurts the relationship - Six of Cups - She's romanticizing? Looking at things with rose colored glasses?
7) Partner- hopes for the relationship - The Empress Reversed - Now I'm stumped. I can see this card easily as a fear but as a hope? Perhaps it's that he's looking to be taken care of. To receive constantly without giving?
8) Partner- emotions of the heart - The Hermit RX - This is another card that makes me weary. It's come up before in similar positions regarding this guy. He's lost, confused, avoiding some real truths.
9) Partner- what he can do for her - Sun RX - another reversed card. This gives me two feelings - either he can do nothing or he can give her false hope.
10) Partner- the part of him that hurts the relationship - Lovers RX - either he's not as into her as he tries to tell her, or he's not actually interested in fully committing (which is a worry she already has regarding him).
11) Strengths of the relationship - Eight of Cups RX - another card I'm not sure how to read positively - perhaps it's that they're both unwilling to give up and walk away?
12) Weaknesses of the relationship - Five of Cups RX - this seems to mirror the Eight of Cups RX. That they're also unwilling to see what's lost in the connection.
I drew an extra card to see what will happen in a months time since things are so unstable and got Nine of Pentacles which, like in previous readings for her - there's always a Nine in the outcome. The good is that it's no longer the Nine of Swords which came up last time I read for her, so perhaps she'll end up walking away from this feeling whole and unscathed and for the better.
Edit: I also just noticed that his entire side is reversed which... Does not seem to bode particularly well either.