prudence
Thank you for clearing that up, Sulis.Sulis said:I think that one of the main problems is that many of the people who do this ONLY post in Your Readings and so they never see threads like this one where people are saying that they should be more considerate by putting effort into their own readings in the first place (as much effort as they expect those answering their threads to put in) and by giving good feedback.
Earlier in this thread it's been said that a 'thank you' is adequate feedback and I feel that I have to say that in the Your Readings forum a 'thank you' is NEVER adequate feedback.
Like Goddessof1967, I get frustrated with posters who have replies to their thread that just sit there, ignored by the OP after the OP has gotten what s/he wanted to hear, and then the OP goes and makes like 3 more new threads, asking for help on them all, getting help, and quite often the people lending their thoughts on the readings may ask a question for clarification etc, and those too go unanswered. And then the OP either loses interest in the recent threads/readings and goes off to make several more... and I might add, many of the feedback replies from the OP are woefully inadequate, like a couple of words to either agree with the take or not...they may not be "Thank you" but they're still ridiculously short and unhelpful.
ETA...not sure if this is too OT, but I have been wondering for a while now, in regards to Your Readings, is there a policy on truthfulness? Like what seems to happen quite often is that a poster will submit a reading for help, stating that it was for a friend, but it is quite obviously for the OP, and it is so obvious because the OP had just done a reading for him/herself maybe a day or so ago, on that very same subject, but did not present it as "for a friend", yet we are all expected to pretend that it is for some anonymous friend, and comment on it, or what have you...I find it not only frustrating but insulting as well. I can understand being embarrassed to admit certain things, or to say that this is yet again another reading on the very same subject that I read about 10 times in the past week, but damn, when it is done all of the time and in such blatant ways, it really pisses me off.