NorthernTigress said:
To further complicate things, what's wrong with just asking HIM what he feels about you?
YES
i have to say that its a bit annoying seeing people ask if someone loves them, surely you should know that, it should be said? or they should show you that, if you need cards to tell you....perhaps there are bigger questions about your relationship.
I do think its snooping, most of us do it though, but i think it complicates matters alot. Some will act on what the card says he feels and that causes issues, that can lead them into a virtual relationship. Communication is always the key to relationships, so missing that out can cause bigger issues.
Another issue is the fact its how they feel at that point in time. sometimes i get angry about something and i write it my diary, i might vent a bit and might include a person. I usually realise the next day that it wasnt their fault, but what if that person read the part of my diary that was written in anger? if you ask how someone feels about you, and you have ticked them off, thats not going to look good is it, its a snapshot in time