Madrigal
Very interesting. Thank you for stating in this way: 'the lwb falls short when it descends into the idea that Mary is somehow outside of us, a separate body.' I just realized too that Fairchild wrote the mother mary lwb. Maybe that's our connecting thread as to why we're still talking about both decks. lol. Even though i've now read it in several sources i keep forgetting that kuan yin is a mary figure (and presumably vice versa). I'm actually running into weird obstacles w/ the levine book I checked out on kuan yin; i feel his authorial presence too much in the retelling of kuan yin's history, or i just dont like his voice. Shdn't prevent me from getting the history i'm after, and i'm kind of surprised i'm taking as much issue w/ it as i am, especially seeing as i read some of Levine's death and dying essays in a psychology class in grad school.
My experience of Mary spans lineages and traditions Tara, Kuan Yin and others all feel like emanations of this aspect of the Goddess. If you want to read a wonderfully earthy and beautiful account of Maryam, as she's known in Islam, giving birth to Jesus you'll find it in the Koran. The description is so embodied as she grabs hold of a date tree with each contraction, digging her bare feet into the earth, sheltered by this tree in the desert and the date tree responding later with a shower of dates to replenish her after birth. Nary a wiseman to be seen anywhere. She's revered in the Islamic tradition.
I love a separate thread for us to focus on mother Mary deck. As someone who grew up in the tradition of the older church in the East I learned to see her in the same light as other more traditional / native goddesses, a personification of the Divine. The Yin to a lot of traditional beliefs' Yang. A much needed maternal hug next to a more authoritative and a slightly too grand for a cuddle, albeit loving, paternalistic God head.
I love how you describe your experience of Mary. And I'd love to hear more about your interface with her. I'm always fascinated by the early religious experiences that shape us and how our innate spirituality grows out of that outer form for better or worse depending the tradition one grew up with.