Red Emma
The devil
Allibee, I hesitated before writing the following. As a bit of a background, I had a pretty destructive father and have been in therapy a whole lot in my life.
One of my biggest problems was being immature. I learned that when a child has more emotional pressure than they can handle, their emotional growth stops. They continue to grow physically, but emotionally they get stuck at the age they encountered the heavy pressure. In my case, I was stuck at being 12 years old. I was lucky to find a therapist who could take me back to the "stuck" point, set me loose then help me to emotionally mature. I'll be forever grateful to her.
I hope your son finds his way.
Goddess Bless,
Red Emma
Allibee, I hesitated before writing the following. As a bit of a background, I had a pretty destructive father and have been in therapy a whole lot in my life.
One of my biggest problems was being immature. I learned that when a child has more emotional pressure than they can handle, their emotional growth stops. They continue to grow physically, but emotionally they get stuck at the age they encountered the heavy pressure. In my case, I was stuck at being 12 years old. I was lucky to find a therapist who could take me back to the "stuck" point, set me loose then help me to emotionally mature. I'll be forever grateful to her.
I hope your son finds his way.
Goddess Bless,
Red Emma