Minderwiz
yes that's true Isthmus. Indeed it's possible to read a chart for a relative or friend (or boss or servant) by ,turning the chart' and reading from the appropriate house. This also goes for transits or progessions to the chart.
I dont take this personally i know i piss off people also. The not saying anything is more of a way of analyzing and trying not to make people unhappy, at the sacrifice of yourself. There is also the saying something to ellicit a response motive...and they dont physically fight much, or well i guess. I think its aggrevating because its so hard to understand, but hey-its a difficult sign and a difficult planet.the people who make me want to pull out my hair are those with, ahem, Mars in Pisces. They can't just come out and say what they want, it seems. I once dated a guy with Mars in Pisces and he drove me crazy, making me guess what he wanted to do, where he wanted to go, leaving a lot of little clues and hints instead of just saying, "Yes, I want to do that," or "No, I don't want that."