ravenest
I guess I just need to get it off my chest.
Guy I know asks for a reading. More often than not nowadays, I decline. This time I didnt. He is staying here 'for a few days' at my friends place.
I gave my pre-rave; I tell you things generally, its up to you to associate the patterns and lessons in the reading with the events in your life. If you want to talk about that with me thats fine, or you can keep the specific details of its relationship to your personal life private - thats up to you.
It seemed a bit tough; started with 5 swords ... blah blah ... ended with Death and The Tower.
Blah blah - rave rave. The reading seemed to end well. During it emotional stuff came up for him but he didnt share (except some tears and river of snot , which I told him to go outside with and eliminate ). I was totally impartial, non-projecting, and actually, I was impressed with myself for being so ... good on you ravenest, job well done !
But then the friend who he is staying with comes around and tells me why. He has done this thing he should NOT have done, and that has bought up a LOT of stuff for me
Now I see that reading in a different light ! And how relevant it was to his specific situation.
It involves domestic abuse, within a new marriage and they have this great wonderful new little baby. Now he has wrecked all this has a stay away order put on him and is due in court for assault and other charges.
I am livid! This is one of my LEAST favourite things ! Instead of being the impartial tarot reader, if I had known at the time, I would have wanted to throw him around the house and scream at him "How do YOU like it - you big bully ! "
- I wish I HAD projected my own stuff and judgement into the reading ! And given him a serve !
I am usually very 'clear' in this respect, in a reading. But this one really got me. - I found my limit !
When I calm down .... I will have to communicate to him what I feel about all that (deep breaths ... count to 10 ... sink into hara .... ) he has offered to do all this free work and maintenance here ... which is needed, I have decided; no thanks, I dont want him around, I have too much 'stuff' about that issue !
Oh dear .... reading for people you know !
Guy I know asks for a reading. More often than not nowadays, I decline. This time I didnt. He is staying here 'for a few days' at my friends place.
I gave my pre-rave; I tell you things generally, its up to you to associate the patterns and lessons in the reading with the events in your life. If you want to talk about that with me thats fine, or you can keep the specific details of its relationship to your personal life private - thats up to you.
It seemed a bit tough; started with 5 swords ... blah blah ... ended with Death and The Tower.
Blah blah - rave rave. The reading seemed to end well. During it emotional stuff came up for him but he didnt share (except some tears and river of snot , which I told him to go outside with and eliminate ). I was totally impartial, non-projecting, and actually, I was impressed with myself for being so ... good on you ravenest, job well done !
But then the friend who he is staying with comes around and tells me why. He has done this thing he should NOT have done, and that has bought up a LOT of stuff for me
Now I see that reading in a different light ! And how relevant it was to his specific situation.
It involves domestic abuse, within a new marriage and they have this great wonderful new little baby. Now he has wrecked all this has a stay away order put on him and is due in court for assault and other charges.
I am livid! This is one of my LEAST favourite things ! Instead of being the impartial tarot reader, if I had known at the time, I would have wanted to throw him around the house and scream at him "How do YOU like it - you big bully ! "
- I wish I HAD projected my own stuff and judgement into the reading ! And given him a serve !
I am usually very 'clear' in this respect, in a reading. But this one really got me. - I found my limit !
When I calm down .... I will have to communicate to him what I feel about all that (deep breaths ... count to 10 ... sink into hara .... ) he has offered to do all this free work and maintenance here ... which is needed, I have decided; no thanks, I dont want him around, I have too much 'stuff' about that issue !
Oh dear .... reading for people you know !