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Fairy Tale Spread #8 - Cinderella's Victim Spread
Cinderella had a hard life, but how much of it was her own doing? My belief is that she made herself a victim of that abuse her stepmother and stepsisters dealt out to her. So this spread is based on what makes us a victim and how to break out of that. You will see that finding your heart's desire and gaining it and keeping it are not one in the same.
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1. Sitting in the Ashes - This represents what locks us into our own victim mentality. Watch for extremely positive cards here as these may indicate false sunshine.
2. Abandoned by death - This represents a physical, mental or spiritual loss that caused us to nosedive into victim mentality.
3. Ugly Stepsister #1 - This represents how our victim mentality affects us on a physical level.
4. Ugly Stepsister #2 - This represents how our victim mentality affects us on a mental level.
5. Wicked Stepmother - This represents how our victim mentality affects us on a spiritual level.
6. Invitation to the ball -This represents your own desire to change.
7. Fairy Godmother - Who or what will help you change.
8. The prince - This represents your true heart's desire
9. Midnight - This represents you fleeing your true desire.
10. The shoe - This represents your chance to regain your desire... your reason to fight for it.
11. The search - This represents what you need to become worthy in your own mind of your true desire. This is the shattering of the victim mentality moment.
12. And they lived Happily Ever After - Outcome of regaining your true desire.
Fairy Tale Spread #1 - Mirror, Mirror
Fairy Tale Spread #2 - Big, Bad Wolf
Fairy Tale Spread #3 - Rapunzel's Tower
Fairy Tale Spread #4 - Sleeping Beauty
Fairy Tale Spread #5 - Princess on a Glass Hill
Fairy Tale Spread #6 - Four Dragons
Fairy Tale Spread #7 - The Ugly Duckling
Cinderella had a hard life, but how much of it was her own doing? My belief is that she made herself a victim of that abuse her stepmother and stepsisters dealt out to her. So this spread is based on what makes us a victim and how to break out of that. You will see that finding your heart's desire and gaining it and keeping it are not one in the same.
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1. Sitting in the Ashes - This represents what locks us into our own victim mentality. Watch for extremely positive cards here as these may indicate false sunshine.
2. Abandoned by death - This represents a physical, mental or spiritual loss that caused us to nosedive into victim mentality.
3. Ugly Stepsister #1 - This represents how our victim mentality affects us on a physical level.
4. Ugly Stepsister #2 - This represents how our victim mentality affects us on a mental level.
5. Wicked Stepmother - This represents how our victim mentality affects us on a spiritual level.
6. Invitation to the ball -This represents your own desire to change.
7. Fairy Godmother - Who or what will help you change.
8. The prince - This represents your true heart's desire
9. Midnight - This represents you fleeing your true desire.
10. The shoe - This represents your chance to regain your desire... your reason to fight for it.
11. The search - This represents what you need to become worthy in your own mind of your true desire. This is the shattering of the victim mentality moment.
12. And they lived Happily Ever After - Outcome of regaining your true desire.
Fairy Tale Spread #1 - Mirror, Mirror
Fairy Tale Spread #2 - Big, Bad Wolf
Fairy Tale Spread #3 - Rapunzel's Tower
Fairy Tale Spread #4 - Sleeping Beauty
Fairy Tale Spread #5 - Princess on a Glass Hill
Fairy Tale Spread #6 - Four Dragons
Fairy Tale Spread #7 - The Ugly Duckling