Hi guys
Applogies is this is the wrong section to post this but I want to ask the question "Is he the one"
(for someone I am so hooked on, yet have never met because we chat on a dating site).
I don't know how to ask it with out being a yes/no question. I was going to do a 3 card spread using Rider Waite cards.
Do you have some good questions?
TIA xx
I also do not use yes/no questions. I have found over time that they do not work for me. They do for some people, but not for me.
The best ways to avoid it are change "is" to "What can you tell me about if"
EG "Is Joe the one?" would become
"What can you tell me about if Joe is the one?"
That will result in a more paragraph form answer, which is how Tarot seems to talk best (at least to me) but should still answer the question.
Other variations are:
"What do I need to know right now about if"
"What would it most benefit me right now to now about if"..
or things along those lines.
I also find it helps to be specific about what you are asking, to get a clear answer. The more specific the question the clearer the answer.
What does "the one" mean? The one who is my soul mate". The one whom I will marry?... I have met soul mates who are no longer in my life. So defining what that means should help you get a clearer answer. Eg if you asked about if they were the one you would marry, the cards might start talking about marriage. Where if you did not include that in the question, they might not...
Hope that helps.
Babs