bluelagune
Jelousy is very common to humans. Success is also a very clear initiator of jelousy. However, if you are brought up in a culture that values individuality above comparability, this is not factored into equation. I am an individual with set goals. They are not the same as other people's. I strive to achieve only mine and noone else's. I am very proud but I'm also very considerate of helping others. Ask me for help and I will raise you as high as you wish to go. However, people on this side of the world consider pride a sin and humbleness as a virtue. The only problem with their humbleness as the fact that in order to hide their insecurities and flaws they need to bring down those who try to achieve something. Humbleness should be used in churches and not at work places. It's a box for weak insecure people. That's why most of the time I just ignore people who trying to either humble me or drag me to their level. My dreams are not their dreams. Your path up the mountain is your and yours alone. If you need my hand, I'll give it to you but if you take my hand just to drag me down so you can feel better about yourself. I ll forget you exist.Reading this specifically leads me to think that your mindset has a lot to do with their success. You're only a victim if you feel like one. On a less dream related note, if they really are as bad as you are claiming- record everything and tell them if they do not desist, you'll send what you have to people that would take it very seriously. The way you're describing it is very strong harassment that any respectable work place would take seriously.
I left that place but now they've traced me to another location and string troubles with people like them.
Because your friends are the right ones. So far I lost all my friends as I have been striped of them. They all turned on me. I've had one guy, been friends for 10 years, he turned on me because I refused to date him. Two men that I tryed to date, turned on me. One tryed to set me up to get fired. I just got up and moved. The last friend, that I just cut off, turned on me because he wanted me to stay where I was and work instead of him. Basically I'd be stuck in small village in middle of nowhere while he enjoys his life in the big city. So when I quit, he passed infor to my former coworkers on how to trace me. So here we are, I think maybe you are onto something. I pick the wrong friends! Maybe there is something wrong with me.In the dream, you just chose another highway. No thinking about the chaos. You did the right thing without overthinking. Same applies here. Don't let fear rule you. That's the only reason why they're successful. You'll always be able to find another job. On another note, they can't destroy any real friendships or relationships. If my coworkers tried to do that among my friends, my friends would laugh and turn it on them. So- if anything they're doing you a favor for making you see some false notions you had about the people in your life. Can't be a victim unless you play the victim.