I read thought this topic a few weeks ago, and was going to reply, but didn't get the chance.
A few months back I made a post in regards to two people sharing the same dream only having different points of view. This happened when my best friend and I were fourteen and I've always considered her to be one of my soul mates (not in the sexual sense but in the sense that she'll always be with me in other lives and we'll always come back to each other whatever happens). However, the dream also made me aware of a man who saved my life in the dream and it was only looking back through old dream journals that I realised the man in my dream of many years ago was indeed my ex. Anyways, to cut a long story short, I believe that he and I have been destined to be in previous lives other than this one and we keep coming back to each other.
Our relationship in this life ended a little over a year ago and there's some bad blood between us at the moment. Especially as he turned up out of the blue one night when I was out with my girlfriends and he decided to tell one of them that he wanted nothing to do with me and that he felt like I was stalking him.
Now, in fairness - I did write him a letter back in April after I had a civilised chat with him, asking him if he wanted me then he had to make it known and I'd get the answer I desired if he contacted me or not. He chose not, but that was fine cause I managed to get my head sorted. But since April I've been having some really intense dreams about him, so much so that I can even smell his aftershave in them. This made me wonder if I'm actually connecting with his soul while I'm sleeping and he could feel this and it made him uncomfortable. The strangest thing is, it's like he can tell that I'm over him or getting over him cause when I am, he turns up and messes me up again. Could I be sending out messages to his soul telling him that I'm ready to move on from him and in return his soul is seeking me out in reality and not letting me.
To be honest, I think that we need to set each other free, but I can't see this happening any time soon; particularly because whenever I see him he watches me like a hawk and I refuse to play his mind games any longer. So, I ask this - if Lucid Dreaming allows you to control your dreams and deep mediation can help contact your angels and spirit guides, could mediation allow you to call another soul and speak to them heart to heart through dream?