There are lots of threads here about determining sexual orientation through the cards. A search would bring some of them up. That might help you with what you're concerned about, although most of those threads end up a little heated about whether or not it's ethical to try to determine someone's sexual orientation that way.
Does this man know his son is gay? If he does, then he's probably at least suspected that you are, too.
I'm sure if a really accomplished reader were to look for it specifically, they might be able to tell with a fair amount of accuracy. I wouldn't ever say it's not possible. But if I were you, I'd just do the exchange and if it comes up, you don't have to expose your secret if you don't want to.
Yes, as in he does not approve... Of course, that could just be him talking out of his ass. His son is my best friend, and he was the same way until I came out to him, and then he accepted me...
Well, you know what Shakespeare said. To paraphrase in current English "I think you protest too much". Perhaps the father is still in the closet?
But remember----your sexuality is your own business, no one else's. If it comes up in the reading, you can laugh the subject off. Or you can change the subject. Or you can ask a question that has nothing to do with sexuality and then say your sexuality isn't something you choose to discuss during the reading if he brings it up. Just don't let it become an issue. It's your business, not his.
I've always gotten rather upset whenever the subject of determining another person's sexual orientation via the cards comes up. Sex is a very private part of one's life and one that nobody else has a right to pry into. One of my daughters is lesbian, one of my grandchildren has just come out as bisexual and I have three gay cousins (at least
). For some reason, I feel defensive about the subject because 1.) the reader could be wrong and could cause incredible harm in the subjects life if they
are wrong and rumors start flying and 2.) it's nobody business what someone else does in the bedroom. If a person specifically asks a reader something about their sex lives, fine. Otherwise, it's nobody's business. So in my opinion, if this guy brings up sexuality when you didn't ask about it, you have every right to close the door in his face so to speak.
Our esteemed member whose opinion I respect, Fudugazi, differs in her opinion somewhat because she's read for subjects all over the world and in many cultures, so I have to defer to her that in certain times and places, talking about another's sexual orientation in a reading is appropriate. However, in this case, it wouldn't be appropriate if you don't want to come out to him or discuss it if he sees it in his cards.