SunChariot
10 Swords and Empress...victimization of womanhood?
The cards don't mean the exact same thing to each of us of course. But not to me anyway.
The 10 of Swords to me is about something that you can't stop thinking about and can't get it off your mind, that song that gets stuck in your head and keeps going round or just almost obsessively thinking about something and can't get it off your mind. As soon as you have time to think again there it is.
Now if a rape is premeditated, there could be an association with that kind of thinking,. BUT The Empress negates that for me. It's about kindness and caring and wanting to be good to the person and take good care of them. Even to protect them from harm, And I cannot associate that with rape in any way at all.
To me they are a positive enough pair. Someone realizing and thinking a lot about how much they care about the other and how much they want to be good and caring to them, Maybe on their mind a lot as the situation and relationship is new. Could be a stalker kind of thing, but it would very very rarely mean that to me. Just like Death rarely means real Death, it would rarely have that negative meaning for me.
So to me, my answer is no. I personally would not see it as rape.
Maybe if you had the 10 of Swords with The Devil. As the Devil is about being tempted to do something you shouldn't and that is not acceptable. And also about just sex with no love or feelings or caring attached to it. So that combination could potentially be for me.
Babs