Nytebugg
I don't let the cards dictate my life. I may ask those question how will a date go or how will this or that meeting go. if it seems bad i will still go because I believe a reading can be changed. My reasoning is that tarot is taking a snapshot of a moment but those moments change and are in flux. Particularly future moments.
I do ask how does so-and-so feel about me. sometimes like others have said you cannot ask the person or that person may be unresponsive of their feelings. I have a friend who does not verbalize his feelings because of past hurts and issues. He shows his affection in other ways. It tends to confuse me, particularly at first, because I couldn't tell if he was just being friendly or if he really liked me as more than a friend. If I asked, which I did, this wall would come up so I learned not to ask him. Then I didn't trust my intuition because what if it was just wishful thinking on my part. I'd have other people here read on it because they aren't invested in the answer. now I never ran out and used that info. I'm getting better at trusting my intuition when it comes to this and no longer feel like I am going crazy. I am also doing my best not to ask that question as much anymore because I know I should trust what I feel more. I will answer if for other people though. My reasoning for answering it is that there probably are signs there about how that persons feels about the sitter but the sitter just isn't trusting their own intuition about it.
I do ask how does so-and-so feel about me. sometimes like others have said you cannot ask the person or that person may be unresponsive of their feelings. I have a friend who does not verbalize his feelings because of past hurts and issues. He shows his affection in other ways. It tends to confuse me, particularly at first, because I couldn't tell if he was just being friendly or if he really liked me as more than a friend. If I asked, which I did, this wall would come up so I learned not to ask him. Then I didn't trust my intuition because what if it was just wishful thinking on my part. I'd have other people here read on it because they aren't invested in the answer. now I never ran out and used that info. I'm getting better at trusting my intuition when it comes to this and no longer feel like I am going crazy. I am also doing my best not to ask that question as much anymore because I know I should trust what I feel more. I will answer if for other people though. My reasoning for answering it is that there probably are signs there about how that persons feels about the sitter but the sitter just isn't trusting their own intuition about it.