I can see what Firemaiden is saying... Doing readings for yourself or for someone who asks for one is one thing but asking the cards about someone else's feelings, someone who isn't there and has no connection to the cards in the reading apart from you is something else entirely.
These are called third party readings and many, many readers doubt that they work or that tarot really can read about someone who knows nothing about the reading...
I ask people whom I read for to keep themselves as the main focus to their reading because then there is a connection. If you're reading about someone else then where's the link - tarot is bound to see what you (the querant, the person who's asked the question) is projecting onto them and not what's really in their head. That's my opinion and the opinion of many other readers I've spoken to.
I did some oracle readings yesterday. i asked what the main event was going to be for this coming week...I would get involved in love relationship with her..Various readers picked this up.
i can not imagine that she will, i don't think we will. I don't even care about the outcome
I just thought Whatever....
how come they pick this up? maybe because it would be my desire?
i do not think that this is what she will do ..Maybe this is what the universe wants..?
i don't not see this potential. Potential is potential nothing more or less. I must and i will and i should accept only her word.
I really do think that some can read accurate for third..I think the value of this reading depends upon the energy involved.. if this is to "fired up" it will influence the reading,significant..This is my take.. What you say is what i feel to believe as well, somehow my desire interferes the outcome when it comes down to, having a relationship with her.. This is also why i opened this thread in the first place, because i can imagine that this could happen.... It is good to know that this brought me some clarity, Sullis. I really feel that desire influences the outcome, not my believes which i thought before i opened this thread, which i could not imagine that this would, for i know i did not believe in a relationship, before i even asked about it ...I do think now that my desires gets in the way This daunted to me yesterday, doing the oracle readings with others...
The only yes which can be given is through her decision. Even the tarot and the oracle say she is not ready or willing to commit. Period...
The "yes," outcomes are of no significance, i shouls add, anymore..